Monday, November 25, 2013

Gratitude


During the decade of decisions and throughout our whole life we can be happier when she show gratitude. Thank you Nicole Ashby for being the guest blogger and writing about the importance of gratitude for you! Happy Thanksgiving to all and enjoy this post :)

Nicole writes:

With Thanksgiving fast approaching, many people reflect on the things they are grateful for.
In this video, Elder Hales talks about how we can show gratitude to our Heavenly Father in more ways than one.  He also talks about why it is important to have a thankful heart.



What a beautiful way to explain how Heavenly Father views our acts of gratitude.  I love that Elder Hales says, “our obedience to the laws and ordinances and commandments is the greatest expression of love and gratitude that we can bestow upon Him.”
Heavenly Father told us how to show him that we love him.  He said, “If ye love me, keep my commandments.” –John 14:15
These are powerful statements that cannot be overlooked.  I have often thought about why we choose to be obedient to the commandments and to uphold the standards that we do as members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  As we grow up, each stage in our life seems to offer various ways to live in a worldly manner.  There are so many things vying for our attention; it is really quite pervasive.  Heavenly Father is aware of the temptations we face, and He feels that we value Him when we choose His ways. 
Additionally, it is important that we express our gratitude to our Father in words.  In humble prayer we tell God that we recognize His hand in all things.  We realize that the goodness in our lives comes from Him, not from us or random happenstance.  Some of my most spiritual memories have been realizing how much I have to be thankful for as I express thanks to God for big and small blessings in my life.  It becomes more natural to look for blessings in my life as I thank Him for them often. 
There truly is so much to be grateful for!  An attitude of gratitude has proven to brighten my life and I am no anomaly. It helps me to focus on what I DO have and not dwell on what I don’t have.  When we feel that blessings are few, it is important to say to our Father, “Thy will be done.”  He sees us using the Savior’s Atonement to lighten our heavy hearts.  He reaches our reaching and is proud of us when we recognize that it is Him through which our blessings come.  My relationships are sweeter as I tell people I am grateful for what they do to bless my life, often simply by being in my life.  Just as Elder Hales says, “Gratitude is a divine principle.”  I have felt that divine Spirit and Comfort that is open to all who will recognize and thank Heavenly Father for their blessings.
    


Sunday, November 17, 2013

Seize the day!

This week's blog is about taking advantage of all good opportunities that come our way and it's written in both English and German by guest blogger Eliza Garlick. Thanks Eliza! She writes:
Mark Twain said, “I was seldom able to see an opportunity until it had ceased to be one.” There are so many possibilities before us every single day!  We have the opportunity to choose what we will do and who we will become.  If we are not aware and actively seeking out opportunities we may miss them.  When we take advantage of the opportunities presented us, we will be able to have a more rich life.
I love this quote from President Dieter F. Uchtdorf, Apostle of Jesus Christ.  He talked about being grateful and celebrating these opportunities presented to us. “…Don’t close your eyes and hearts to the simple and elegant beauties of each day’s ordinary moments that make up a rich, well-lived life. The happiest people I know are not those who find their golden ticket; they are those who, while in pursuit of worthy goals, discover and treasure the beauty and sweetness of the everyday moments. They are the ones who, thread by daily thread, weave a tapestry of gratitude and wonder throughout their lives. These are they who are truly happy.
Last week, I had such an opportunity, to go with a group of friends to celebrate a German holiday called St. Martins day.  St. Martin was such a person that took advantage of the opportunities to do good and reach his potential.  The most famous story about him is that he was riding his horse on a very cold night and saw a beggar in need of his help and the warmth he could give.  He got off the horse and gave the beggar half of his cloak.  He saw the opportunity to do good and took it right away.
The Festival can be compared to the American Halloween where children walk along the streets and knock on the doors to get treats.  In order to receive candy in Germany, the children sing a song and hold a paper lantern they have made themselves.
One of the songs includes:
LaterneLaterne,
SonneMond und Sterne,
Brenne auf mein Licht
Brenne auf mein Licht
Aber nur meine liebe Laterne nicht.
Laterne Laterne
Sonne mond und sterne,
Sperrt ihn ein, den Wind,
Sperrt ihn ein den Wind
Er soll warten bis wir zu Hause sind
Laterne Laterne
Sonne mond und Sterne
Bleibe hell mein Licht
Bleibe hell mein Licht
Sonst strahlt meine liebe Laterne nicht.

Basically translated it means: lantern, lantern, sun, moon and starts, just wait wind, just wait wind, you should wait until we are at home.  Lantern ,lantern, sun, moon, and stars.  Stay bright my light, stay bright my light, or else my wonderful lantern won’t shine.
St. Martin’s day is always celebrated on November 11, a time when because of the time changes and the season changing, it is very dark, and the celebration is to remember the light and to bring light into the world.  St. Martin did this in the way he served others, and that is something we can remember every day.  We can choose to be the difference that the world needs and take advantage of these opportunities available to us.
This wonderful family from Stuttgart Germany has lived in Provo for 5 years and they generously hosted the neighborhood as well as a group of students from BYU in their home.  The night started off with making homemade paper lanterns.  If you would like to make one of your own follow this link:http://www.instructables.com/id/How-to-make-a-paper-lantern-in-6-easy-steps/


After our lanterns were ready, we watched a little skit of St. Martin given in German with an English translation.  It was neat to look around the circle of so many different people of all ages and cultural backgrounds together to celebrate.

We walked around the block holding our own paper lanterns and following a horse with someone acting as St. Martin.  It was a neat experience to meet new people, experience a new culture, and learn how to do new things.  Each day when we choose to take advantage of opportunities like this, we are adding new moments to our tapestry of happiness and life experience.




Sometimes I almost get overwhelmed at all of the opportunities available.  I’ve called it the Disneyland syndrome:  there are just so many things to do and so little time!  There are even more opportunities available  it seems when we are college age students in a university town.  There are always cultural and local events where we can get to know others and share ourselves with them as well.  One way we can take advantage ofthese opportunities is to start now.  Little by little and day by day looking for opportunities, and where there aren’t opportunities creating them!  When we do this we can be like lanterns on a dark winter night reminding us of goodness and light in the midst of trial and problems.


Ich bin dankbar fuer die Moeglichkeit auf Deutsch zu schreiben!  Ich habe das noch nicht viel gemacht, und dass koennt ihrbestimmt sehen als ihr es lest, aber Ich will bestimmt diese dingeteilen die mir wichtig sind besonders mit meine Freunde die ausDeutschland sind.  Diese Chance dass Ich Deutscschreibe isteine gute Beispiel wie wir keine angst haben sollen wenn wiretwas neues tun.  Wir werden es nicht perfekt schaffenaber esist schon wichtig das wir unseres bestes geben und dieMoeglichkeiten zu nehmen die uns bereit stehen.  
Also, ich hatte letze Woche die Moglichkeit gehabt in Amerikaein Deutches Feiertag zu Feiern mit eine Deutsche Familie!  Eshat mir zu denken gebracht wie wir Moeglichkeiten annehmensollen und das groesste Potenzial erreichen die moeglich ist.
Es gibt taeglich tausende moeglichkeiten entscheidungen zutreffen!  Es fuehlt sich als ob waehrend dieser Zeit meinesLebens gibt es noch mehr moeglichkeiten entscheidungenmachen zu muessen als je zu vor.  
Wenn wir jedes Mal die Erfahrungen nehemen die uns offenstehenwerden wir ein volles Leben haben.  Ich hab eine Zitatgern die Praesident Dieter F. Uchtdorfein Apostel des Herrn,gegeben hat.  Es heisstDie glücklichsten Menschen, die ichkennesind nicht diejenigen, die ihre goldene Eintrittskartegefunden habensondern jene, die auf ihrem Weg zuerstrebenswerten Zielen die schönen und kostbaren alltäglichenMomente erkennen und zu schätzen wissenSie sind es, die Tagfür Tag die Fäden des Lebens zu einem Wandteppich verweben, der von Dankbarkeit und Staunen zeugtSie sind es, diewahrhaft glücklich sind
Ich glaube meine persoenliche Wandteppich ist reichergeworden in die letzte Woche wegen diese schoene Familie ausStuttgart und die Feier die sie gegeben haben.  Ich bin dankbardass es die Moeglichkeit gab diese Erfahrung zu haben.  
Die Feiertag heisst Sankt Martin’s Tag. Sankt Martin war so einMensch der die Moeglichkeiten gutes zu tun angenommen hat.  Er hat so viel dienst gegeben und gutes getan.  Er ist sehrbekannt fuer eine Geschichte ins besonders.  Er hat sein Mantelein arme Bettler gegeben auf ein kalter Nacht.  Er hatte so vielLieb fuer alle Menschen besonders Kinder und hat ein sehr guteBeispiel gegeben.  
Wir feiern diesen Tag indem wir Lanterne basteln und das Lichtleuchten lassen in den Dunklen nacht.  Weil es Winter istist esschon sehr dunkel und kaltaber das Licht ist warm und bringetwas Freude und eine gute Errinerung dass wir Licht in einDunkeln welt erschaffen koennen.  Wir haben ein sehr schoenesLied gesungen als wir um die nachbarschaft gelaufen sind.  Esging:
LaterneLaterne,
SonneMond und Sterne,
Brenne auf mein Licht
Brenne auf mein Licht
Aber nur meine liebe Laterne nicht.
Laterne Laterne
Sonne mond und sterne,
Sperrt ihn ein, den Wind,
Sperrt ihn ein den Wind
Er soll warten bis wir zu Hause sind
Laterne Laterne
Sonne mond und Sterne
Bleibe hell mein Licht
Bleibe hell mein Licht
Sonst strahlt meine liebe Laterne nicht.
Es war unglaublich schoen alle die neue Leute kennen zu lernenund mehr ueber dieses Feiertag zu lernen.  Ich denke wir sollenimmer die moeglichkeit nehmen die da sind, und wenn es keinegibteins erschaffen!  Es bring freude unser Leben mit solcheErfahrung zu erfuellen!  Ich bin dankbar fuer alle dieErfahrungen die Ich genommen habe und lade euch ein das selbezu tun!





Saturday, November 9, 2013

He will guide us

Nov 8
I am really excited to start this blog! I hope I don't sound awkward at first as I write because I have never done a blog before. So don't judge... :)
Anyways, for my first blog I want to share an experience that happened to me the other day that illustrates a principle that I consider very important in all my decision making.

A little background info: Often we are given opportunities to organize or lead an activity or group which requires a good amount of planning and time. I was recently blessed with one of these opportunities here in Provo. I was asked by local church leaders to help develop a way that many local members of the church can use social media to share the things that matter most to them with others. I took it to The Lord in prayer. For a week straight ideas flowed into my mind and many friends added great council. Now here is the neat story I wanted to focus on:

On Thursday after my Music 101 class I was walking with a buddy named Hayden and he asked me what I was doing that night. I told him I would probably be brainstorming ideas for this church assignment I had received and I explained what it was. We then had an awesome discussion about the project. He went on to say that he knew somebody that could be of great help to this cause. He knew the social media representative of a large company who was well trained in spreading information through technology. That very night my buddy Hayden called her and I was surprised at what she told him. She said that recently she had just finished a book called The Power of an Everyday Missionary (a book I am currently reading) and right before my buddy called she was pondering on how she could better use her skills for a good cause in the world! Hayden passed me her contact info and when I called her I could hear the excitement in her voice when she said "I'll be over in fifteen minutes!" That night we had an awesome discussed that proved to be quite helpful and productive. I know that it was meant to be.

The principle that this experience illustrates for me is that when we have responsibilities or decisions to make, if we go to The Lord for help He will always be there for us guiding us and helping us. As I continue to share experiences on this blog I will also share about what role God played in each of those circumstances. Sometimes it's hard to recognize his answers, sometimes He lets us decide for ourselves and sometimes He even shows us His sense of humor. In all cases, I know that he is always there to guide us when we seek Him.


Feel free to share your feelings on this subject in the comments :)

This is me and my dog before she passed away :)